Until Yesterday

 

Photo Titled: "Friendship" Paris November 2022
by robin

A few years ago, a person who I thought was a friend. was really rude to me. She was so awful, I felt insulted and just wanted nothing to do with her after that.

So, I do what I always do, just stopped communications, and avoided seeing her. I believe it is called ghosting now.

Confrontation is something I avoid like the plague. It must be because while growing up there was so much abuse and drama in our home.

Feeling confident in my decisions about friendship and moving forward worked out fine. Until yesterday.

I found this quote about GHOSTING.

"It makes you an unreliable friend. It shows that you have no respect for another person's feelings. It says you are inconsiderate and do not care much about the impact or consequences of your actions. It's easier than breaking up but it also shows you have no character when you chose easy over integrity."

I have not been able to get the situation out of my mind. She was not the bad friend. I was. Ghosting is such a modern technical term and it felt right at the time.

I owe someone an apology.

Love you beyond the moon.

Me